Carpatolechia alburnella has white labial palps with segment two clear white above and dark at the base and segment three with two dark rings near the tip; the head, thorax and tegulae (sides of the thorax) are white, areas which are mottled with brownish-grey in even the palest of C. proximella.
Carpatolechia notatella is a slightly smaller, on average, and darker moth and only the very darkest form of C. proximella could potentially cause confusion. C. proximella lacks the black spot at the base of the forewing, instead having an occasionally elongated spot at the base of the costa (leading edge).
If a more uniformly greyish but similar-sized moth is encountered, with streaky rather than spotty black marks, then it could be worth considering Teleiodes saltuum. This species feeds primarily on larch and is found in France, Holland and Belgium as well as other more distant European countries.